Have you ever been in a conversation where you’re always being interrupted before you can finish your sentence? Or maybe you are the one who is cutting in on the conversation and dont even realize it! I found myself guilty on many occasions through life only to realize that communication skills is not just for public speaking but our everday interpersonal relationships.
I noticed that the more I cut in or cut off a person in conversation that I wasn’t listening to them. At times this caused arguments, because I tried to get the last word in. Guys always let the woman get the last word in!! It wasn’t until I became ‘aware’ that I wasn’t listening to the person or group of friends I was just too wrapped up in my own world. The more I learned about God and His attributes the more I learned about myself and how much I needed to change if I wanted to better myself. Learning communication skills from many great authors helped as well. I have come a long way, but am still learning to listen even when I talk to God in prayer. So often I just need to listen to Him and not just unload all my request.
The key was to listen, and then to listen to not only what they are saying, but also what they may be feeling. Listening is an art with a lot of self discipline “Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to be angry” James 1:19 The book of James has a lot to say about our tongue and interpersonal life.
Enjoy this day and this coming week. Take time just to listen.
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Greetings! My name is Andy Provitola and I live in New England on the South Shore between Boston and the beautiful Cape Cod region.
The purpose of my blogging and writing is to encourage you in your journey here on planet earth. Life is full of pressing issues and problems and my desire is to discover a place for peace, hope, healing, and contentment. I am a follower of Jesus Christ – God’s one and only Son and I discovered these truths along my own personal journey.
Having discovered a personal relationship with God the Father through Jesus Christ does not mean I have to be religious to attain the rewards of heaven. The fact is God provides grace for us and accepts us as we are in His image. In other words, we cannot attain heaven or life eternal on our own, but by God’s loving grace and no merit of our own. Simply by accepting Him by faith and believing.
My goal is to continue to find a balance of life from a spiritual and practical perspective with a purpose to please and glorify God in all that I do because of His ‘Gift of Grace’.
God is not transcendent and so far away that he is out of reach with humanity. God desires that His presence lives within us and not just in the galaxies and the universe. Experiencing the unconditional love of God has been so rewarding and while discovering the truth and purpose for my life. Moving forward in this life is not a sprint, but a marathon when it comes to this race here on earth.
I am blogging because I find it is a good way to connect in a much more effective and efficient way when it comes to communicating and interacting with people that I know or do not know. Blogging and writing challenges me and also stretches me specifically in my thoughts, my mind, my emotions, and my spiritual life. To live a vertical relation with God and a horizontal relationship with others.
There will be a variety of topics and subjects to address including youth, young adults, family, singles, seniors, relationships, etc. Some of the topics will include God’s creation and power, depression, loneliness, suicide, hope, healing, setbacks, financial matters, business, stress, anxiety, care, encouragement, and so much more.
I would like to connect with all walks of life, ethnicity, culturally, other religions, socio-economics, and in so many more ways.
I am currently writing a book and several memoirs about my own life and journey . The journey begins at a young age growing up in Malden, Massachusetts, specifically Maplewood Square to where I am today. I became paralyzed from the waist down as a senior in high school and I share how my life changed for the better!
“But I do not consider my life as something of value or dear to me, so that I may [with joy] finish my course and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus. To testify faithfully of the good news of God’s [precious undeserved] grace [which makes us free of guilt of sin and grants us eternal life]. Acts 20:24 Amplified Version
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