Gentleness is Part of the Vine

“Abiding in the Vine”

Christ being the vine, we are the branches see John 15:1-16.

One of the fruit of the Spirit is gentleness. “But the fruit of the Spitit is is love, joy, peace, gentleness…”

Gentleness or being gentle has become a lonely word in our current intolerant society. Anger and rudeness, lack of patience have become the ‘accepted norm’. “A soft (gentle answer turns away wrath”.

If I don’t get my way then tough #@*!. People get upset when we don’t fall into somebody’s manipulative trap to argue with them. I remember an old saying, ‘kill them with kindness’.
We all have lost our cool or patience at times and can regret how we reacted. I’ve seen people in restaurants where patrons demand service, or people cut in a long line such as the airport, or a sporting event, or concert. People being rude over there own views of politics or religion. People who were much better off who take advantage of the poor who may be waiting in line for a meal or even shelter. The covid days showed some true colors and motives with people. It was all about me, myself, and I.


Yes, we are all human and have emotions and there are times that we cannot control our emotions and we snap back talking and barking because we are so frustrated. We may get our way, but it sure tells us a lot about our character. This is where the work of the Holy Spirit come into focus. Jesus said, ‘Apart from ME you can do nothing’. Without Christ as the true vine, there is no fruit! We need the Lord’s help and grace for these branches to become more fruitful!

Gentleness, patience, and kindness are part of the vineyard that is a work of the Holy Spirit or fruit of the Spirit. (Galatians 5:22-23).

Even in difficult times and severe losses we show our true colors. Gentleness is being considerate toward others. Jesus did not retaliate when he was arrested in the garden, but Peter was angry enough to cut the soldiers ear off. Jesus picked up the ear off the ground and healed the soldier as he was being arrested.

If I want to become more fruitful then I need to ‘die to the flesh’ and to my old selfish ways. The Lord encourages us to spend time with Him in prayer and reading the Word of God. It’s in these times our branches get pruned if we allow the Holy Spirit’s work to purge us and become what God and others desire us to be.

Remember, it’s not about me bettering myself, but it’s more important that God is glorified in our life!

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls”.
Matthew 11:29 NIV

Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight”.
1 Peter 3:4 NIV

May we continue to keep striving to be like Jesus and be kind and gentle.

Continuing to pray for many experiencing the loss grief. And heartache of the southern California fires. Praying these fires will go out and all the displaced will find food and shelter.🙏


Discover more from A One Eighty

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

Published by Andy

Greetings! My name is Andy Provitola and I live in New England on the South Shore between Boston and the beautiful Cape Cod region. The purpose of my blogging and writing is to encourage you in your journey here on planet earth. Life is full of pressing issues and problems and my desire is to discover a place for peace, hope, healing, and contentment. I am a follower of Jesus Christ – God’s one and only Son and I discovered these truths along my own personal journey. Having discovered a personal relationship with God the Father through Jesus Christ does not mean I have to be religious to attain the rewards of heaven. The fact is God provides grace for us and accepts us as we are in His image. In other words, we cannot attain heaven or life eternal on our own, but by God’s loving grace and no merit of our own. Simply by accepting Him by faith and believing. My goal is to continue to find a balance of life from a spiritual and practical perspective with a purpose to please and glorify God in all that I do because of His ‘Gift of Grace’. God is not transcendent and so far away that he is out of reach with humanity. God desires that His presence lives within us and not just in the galaxies and the universe. Experiencing the unconditional love of God has been so rewarding and while discovering the truth and purpose for my life. Moving forward in this life is not a sprint, but a marathon when it comes to this race here on earth. I am blogging because I find it is a good way to connect in a much more effective and efficient way when it comes to communicating and interacting with people that I know or do not know. Blogging and writing challenges me and also stretches me specifically in my thoughts, my mind, my emotions, and my spiritual life. To live a vertical relation with God and a horizontal relationship with others. There will be a variety of topics and subjects to address including youth, young adults, family, singles, seniors, relationships, etc. Some of the topics will include God’s creation and power, depression, loneliness, suicide, hope, healing, setbacks, financial matters, business, stress, anxiety, care, encouragement, and so much more. I would like to connect with all walks of life, ethnicity, culturally, other religions, socio-economics, and in so many more ways. I am currently writing a book and several memoirs about my own life and journey . The journey begins at a young age growing up in Malden, Massachusetts, specifically Maplewood Square to where I am today. I became paralyzed from the waist down as a senior in high school and I share how my life changed for the better! “But I do not consider my life as something of value or dear to me, so that I may [with joy] finish my course and the ministry which I received from the Lord Jesus. To testify faithfully of the good news of God’s [precious undeserved] grace [which makes us free of guilt of sin and grants us eternal life]. Acts 20:24 Amplified Version

One thought on “Gentleness is Part of the Vine

Leave a Reply

Discover more from A One Eighty

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading

Discover more from A One Eighty

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading